Repeated hair pulling or skin picking can be confusing and distressing for the person and family. When these behaviors cause damage or significant difficulty, they may involve a body-focused repetitive behavior, often shortened to BFRB. A clinician can assess what is happening.
Not every grooming habit is a disorder, and a BFRB is not automatically an OCD compulsion, a tic, intentional self-harm or an autistic stim. Similar-looking actions can serve different functions.
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Understand before asking someone to stop
Hair-pulling disorder is called trichotillomania; skin-picking disorder is also called excoriation disorder. Patterns can involve urges, sensory experiences, emotion or actions that happen with limited awareness.
A public reminder, punishment or a demand to use willpower may add shame. Ask privately what the person notices and what kind of support they want. Do not inspect their body without consent.
Source context: International OCD Foundation: body-focused repetitive behaviors
Ask about treatment that fits this pattern
An experienced clinician may discuss habit-reversal-based work or a comprehensive behavioral approach (ComB), which looks at the individual situations and functions involved. Do not assume an OCD exposure plan is automatically the right intervention.
Bring questions: Is there a skin or other medical condition? What happens before the behavior? What supports would be acceptable? What should family members do—or stop doing? Treatment should fit the person's communication and sensory needs.
Source context: International OCD Foundation: ComB for skin picking and hair pulling
Physical symptoms deserve medical care
Seek medical advice for wounds, infection concerns, pain or hair loss. Swallowing pulled hair warrants medical attention, especially with abdominal pain or vomiting. Do not rely on a community suggestion or supplement list for assessment.
Support can include helping arrange an appointment, offering a private way to talk, or simply avoiding unwanted comments about appearance. Ask before taking photos or keeping a record for a clinician.
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Published October 24, 2026 · Last content update October 24, 2026 · Sources checked October 24, 2026
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